I’m going to start this blog with a simple reference:
“Douche bag, or simply douche, is considered to be a pejorative term. The slang usage of the term originated in the 1960s. The term usually refers to a person, usually male, with a variety of negative qualities, specifically arrogance and engaging in obnoxious and/or irritating actions, most often without malicious intent.”
Many of you may already know (most of you if you’re reading this from twitter) that last night I was being DM’d by a douche! I’ll be posting a video of the DM conversation from my phone (because it’s not showing on my computer so I can’t simply Screen Capture – Grrrrrr…. but hey, sometimes video is just better, right!?)
I LOVE my fans. Without you, I wouldn’t be here and I certainly wouldn’t have remained in the adult entertainment industry since 1997 without YOU! I love getting emails. Charlee@charleechaselive.com I love getting tweets. http://www.twitter.com/charlee_chase I love hearing from members of my website on the forum. http://www.CharleeChaseLive.com I love hearing from you on my yahoo group http://groups.yahoo.com/group/charlee I even have a myspace (but I really don’t use it anymore) I have a facebook but I never use that either – I can’t post nudity and almost all porn chicks facebooks get shut down on a regular basis so I don’t even bother. I have a Personal one – for people I actually know – outside the porn industry – with my Real name that I use, but that one will do you no good (If you find me, I won’t accept you … no offense!)
In being in the adult industry, I run across ALL types of people – for the most part – pretty cool people – but every once in a while, I run into a real DOUCHE …. and the guy I was dealing with last night – fits the true definition so I found it suiting to make that his nickname for now. I’m sure he’ll read this and I’m sure his head will swell (EVEN BIGGER THAN IT IS) because I’m taking time out of my busy life to write about him… but this is a general warning for everyone out there …. Don’t Be A Douche! Most of the time, we just silently block or even report you. Sometimes, we’ll put you out there publicly … so think before you write (It’s too EASY to put out there – even when you think you’re being discrete by sending an email or DM) …. I gladly keep my discussions discrete with my fans. I have emails, dms and more from fans (WHO ARE RESPECTFUL) and no one would even know I’m speaking with them unless THEY told someone .. but if you write me (or much of anyone) and you act like a douche …. don’t expect us to sit back and take it! We’re people too.
And to the guy who said, “well, she’s an adult film star. She deserves it” …. you’ll end up in jail for abuse or worse things I can’t type in my blog or they’ll shut it down – because NO ONE deserves to be stalked, harassed or anything of the likes. So what? A chick comes out of a bar and she’s dressed like a slut because it makes her feel good. She gets brutally attacked on her way home. You think she DESERVES it? FUCK NO! The only person deserving of anything in that situattion (or in mine) is the person on the OTHER end. The person who felt that would be alright. Let’s pretend for a second I don’t fuck on film. Let’s pretend I sling garbage for a living. When I get home and I’m off the clock (Like I was last night) … someone can just throw garbage at me because That’s what I do for a living? Dude, you’re psycho if you follow that philosophy.
That concludes my blog today. I hope you’ve enjoyed reading a day in the life of a pornstars tweets and DM’s lol 🙂 I’ll post the video as soon as it’s finished rendering!
Oh and just for the hell of it …. THIS is the guy who thinks I deserve it:
and THIS was the guy who started the whole thing: